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The Sensible Worker

 

Dear Doers, Builders, Creators, and Seekers:


Following the energy of the seasons is one way I consciously practice burnout-proofing.


For me, warmer months are a cue to slow down in my work and do more in my life — which, for your benefit, means less reading. 😉


This month I'm sharing five practices I wish I'd understood sooner in my burnout recovery journey.


Think of it as planting a seed: if one resonates with you, allow it to take root. That way, when work speeds up later in the year, you already have a habit that supports your energy.


Plant the seed now. Let it grow.


Cheers,

Eileen Murphy

Eileen Murphy

Reflection: 5 Practices I wish I Had Understood.

 

Here's where we start. These mindful practices build upon each other. By creating small interruptions to stress, then support the body, and gradually shift into a more sustainable way of working.


#1: Make the Practice Your Own

I used to get caught up in doing practices exactly as prescribed. Mindfulness isn't about perfection, it's about consistency. My yoga instructor would say: we are what we repeatedly do, so success is habit, not chance.


That idea helped me release the pressure to do things as prescribed so I could focus on meeting myself where I was, and determine what actually works for me.


Adapt practices to your lifestyle, your schedule, and your energy. 

  • Meditation isn't for everyone? Try journaling.
  • Don't have 20 minutes? Do it for 5.
  • Can't stand yoga? Just stretch.

Release judgment about how it "should" look or how long you "should" do it. Listen and learn from others, but remember — you know yourself best. When you give yourself what you actually need, you're far more likely to stay consistent.


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#2: Take a Break

For years, I pushed through the work day without a true break.


A break isn't grabbing lunch between meetings, a quick bio break, walking to get coffee while still on a call, or answering emails while eating. A real break means letting your brain unplug from work — giving it actual rest.


And it doesn't have to be long to be effective. Even 2 minutes every 2–3 hours can help reset your nervous system. That's 8–15 minutes of your workday. We can all gift that amount of time to ourselves.


This can look like staring at a wall or out a window. Gently notice your breath, stretch your neck, back and shoulders, or listen to music. 
There's no phone, no chatter, no worrying "what do I need to get done?" on a brain rest break.


We all want energy left at the end of the day. Taking a brain rest is one of the simplest ways to recover that energy.


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#3: Hydrate

Burnout recovery isn't just mental — it's physical too. Hydration supports energy, focus, and mood regulation.


Drink water, tea, or coffee throughout the day. Limit sugar, alcohol, and excess dairy, which can cause inflammation and energy spikes followed by crashes, sort of like adding an unstable ingredient to an already sensitive system.


A simple reset when you feel overwhelmed: take a sip of water. It's surprising how much our mood, focus, and energy shifts when we're simply dehydrated.


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#4: Create a Baseline for Calm

I'll be honest — I didn't understand the point of mindfulness exercises until I noticed how much faster I could recognize when I was on high-alert or activated.


When stillness becomes familiar, awareness follows. It's like walking into a room in your house and sensing something is off before you can name it.


Choose one intentional mind-body activity per week — yin yoga, journaling, meditation, quiet reflection, or music that brings a sense of calm or release. 
Start small: 5 minutes, 5 sentences, 5 words, or 5 breaths.


These practices help you reconnect with your body's baseline state of calm (aka the rest and digest state). Once that baseline feels familiar, it'll be easier to notice when your stress begins to rise — and how to gently guide yourself back.


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#5: Be. Don't Do.

Our default mode is stuck on "doing." Our environment, even our language, is locked into productivity, output, deliverables, and planning. All measurable. All evaluated.


Shifting into "being" mode takes intention and a little retraining.


For most of my life, when someone asked "how was your day?" I immediately recounted everything I did — as if my day's value was measured by my output. Try creating one moment each week where that doesn't apply: no productivity goal, no planning, no outcomes, no pressure to achieve.


Just be present while watching TV, chopping vegetables, being with family, or doing something creative. 


Some ways that have supported me in being present are:

  • Use your 5 senses to ground you in the moment
  • Take a large conscious breath in with an extra long exhale reminding yourself "you're here to be"
  • When I feel uneasy, for instance while watching TV, I will either make myself tea or do my nails to prevent myself from moving into "doing" mode
  • When I notice my mind wandering, I remind my myself, "there is nothing that needs to be optimized, fixed, or solved in this time and space."
  • My phone-computer is either in another room or on DND so I don't get pulled back into doing.


These are here for you to play with or try out.

Reframe: Consistency over Volume.

 

Counteracting burnout doesn't require a complete overhaul. 


Small, consistent shifts allow you to reconnect with your body's natural baseline of calm — what the nervous system calls the parasympathetic state, or the rest-and-digest state. 


The more familiar that state becomes, the easier it is to notice when stress creeps in and how to guide yourself back.

Restore: Your Choice.

 

Choose one practice and experiment with it this month. You don't need to master it. Just start small.


Which of these practices will support you right now?


Resilience grows through small, consistent steps, not big ones.

Offerings: The BRAs Launch Party - June 6th

 

I’m so excited to share that on June 6th, I’m co-launching The BRAs — a community of women who support, uplift, and empower each other to reconnect with their purpose and live their joy.


What started as three friends supporting each other while building our own businesses has grown into something bigger… and now we’re bringing it to life.


And of course, we had to celebrate in a very on-brand way:

Support. Uplift. DANCE!
The BRAs Launch Party — All-Women Dance Party

Join us on June 6th from 5:00–9:00pm at the American Legion Hall in Evanston (because yes, we love a dance party and an early bedtime).


We’ll be dancing the night away with DJ Tabitha from Groove is in the Heart, celebrating joy, connection, and unapologetic energy.


Bring your girlfriends, come early, stay late—or anything in between. This is your space to show up exactly as you are and celebrate yourself alongside a room full of incredible women.


Come claim your spot on the dance floor HERE!

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